{"id":25,"date":"2008-07-18T01:56:20","date_gmt":"2008-07-18T08:56:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mjville.com\/?p=25"},"modified":"2013-05-25T01:10:04","modified_gmt":"2013-05-25T08:10:04","slug":"a-dear-friend-found","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mjville.com\/?p=25","title":{"rendered":"A dear friend found"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"Grace,<\/a>PHOTO CC: MJ Vilardi some rights reserved<\/a><\/h5>\n

There is great joy in MJville tonight: Julie, one of our dearest friends from Antioch has found us. She’s at the center of the photo above, with Grace and Ross, in my tiny yard on Corcoran Street In Washington DC (mid 80’s). Right after Ross died this May I had tried for days to track Julie down, using every private eye technique and Internet trick I could think of. Then I realized how she, a woman of no small intuitive powers, would advise me to proceed: calm down, reverse the polarity and let it happen.<\/p>\n

Tonight’s full moon is low in the sky and as rusty red as Grace’s hair, as though Mars dropped by for a visit (not impossible, ask Velikovsky). I think the power of that moon, being courted by Jupiter, gave Julie a shot of extra juice that supercharged her meditation. Julie reached out and made our very special circle complete. Tonight she wrote:<\/p>\n

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Juliana Swanson n\u00c3\u00a9e Haynes (AKA “Julie”)<\/h3>\n

said:<\/small> on July 17, 2008 \t\t\tat 8:20 pm<\/p>\n

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Greetings, to Ross and all who love him!<\/p>\n

Ross\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 spirit came and told me he was moving on. He also sent me here today during the Grace Light Full Moon to share the juicy Ross Vibe.<\/p>\n

Ross and I \u00e2\u20ac\u0153lost touch\u00e2\u20ac\u009d over the years, but I have always cherished my secret memories of our good lovin\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 times at Antioch and beyond. I hardly remember smelly feet because he was my heart-throb.<\/p>\n

When we broke off our love fest, it took some powerful witchcraft to help me get over him. Well, part of me never did get over him because we are soul family.<\/p>\n

There is no death, so party on, and let us celebrate Ross\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s life with these wise words of Don van Vliet, one of our old favorites back in the day~<\/p>\n

I like the way the doo dads fly
\nWith just a kiss I blew you up into the marrow sky
\nTwirled n\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 swirled ripe like rotten gold
\nCold like silver in a bed stream, trees cracked like egg creams
\nThe swarm wet green fingery hives
\nI like the way the doo dad flies
\nNeopolitan landscape runs wet my eyes
\nI like the way the doo dads fly
\nThe pink startled morning giggles just ahead behind the bush
\nA dark hollow echo streams
\nViews me from a circle formed of fiber eyes
\nSpeak seek n\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 sing babble, magnify
\nLike wet shapeless babies
\nClearly the dew drops cry
\nSpill n\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 pass from hand to hand
\nN\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 layed gently ready to explode
\nN\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 the sand combed streamed
\nN\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 the trouts blur like herdled sperm rainbows
\nBubbles like glass spurs paddle \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcneath the foot bridge
\nLily\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s pad bulb, orange spotty
\nFrogs lick God\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s lucky green tongue
\nDragon flies bi-planes
\nThe sun hung like a lone orange
\nN\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 a blue tree fell over ripe into the sea
\nN\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 swam like a giant starfish<\/p>\n

Thank you, Ross, with all my heart here now.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

It has been decades since I’ve seen or spoken with Julie, and I find I’m deeply moved, literally weeping at the orange moon with the joy of reconnecting with Grace, then Harry, then the final miracle at this sad (and for Ross perhaps quite glorious) occasion. Spirit Ross whispers sweetly in her ear that he’s catching that 777 Express to Heaven, and Julie consults an oracle (Goo-Gall) and — there’s the signpost up ahead — next stop MJville — but Ross is dead.<\/p>\n

Thank you, Julie, for loving Ross, and loving us enough to reach out and share our joy and grief.<\/p>\n

Julie also wrote: I know…I have a lot of feelings too and realize I need to do some inner work to reach out and heal some more about my past with Ross. I believe that is why he reached out to me…probably when he was doing the old post-mortem life review.<\/p>\n

I do feel that he will not be reincarnating here but will be\/is moving to another higher plane.<\/p>\n

It is a miracle I was drawn to your blog, and this is a reflection of our love, which Ross is showing us is boundless. What’s a few 20 years or so between us. Thank you Ross for this miracle, and thank you MJ and Grace for making it happen, too.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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PHOTO CC: MJ Vilardi some rights reserved There is great joy in MJville tonight: Julie, one of our dearest friends from Antioch has found us. She’s at the center of the photo above, with Grace and Ross, in my tiny yard on Corcoran Street In Washington DC (mid 80’s). Right after Ross died this May […]<\/p>\n

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